How fucking lame am I that I didn’t even notice it’d been a Full Fucking Year’s worth of JuddHole The Blog until I read Jenna’s diary? She and I are a Year Old together, yay. So… Jeezus, where to begin? I figure that, after a year, I can hit that point of just random, meaningless, […]

Going through all of one’s possessions, in an effort to figure out what is truly needed for survival and what is extraneous, is rarely easy if actual survival isn’t necessarily at stake. Sure, there are times that I miss WifeToBe so badly that I’m positive I’m going to DIE, but it’s still hard to argue […]

There are fairly common moments in my life where I have a thought that feels terribly inappropriate and I rarely, if ever, admit them to anyone. That’s what’s nice about having a blog, I can admit this shit to a thousand or so strangers and not worry about what they’ll think of me. As my […]

I’m learning that whenever you drop a bombshell, it’s usually safest to wait for the dust to settle and then see where the pieces lay. I’d said before that I didn’t expect anyone to really understand, I mostly just wanted to be trusted. Whether they do or they don’t, I’m hearing very little from my […]

I never really expected anyone to understand. Not to say that folks haven’t told me that they do, but I am fully aware that the general feel is that they don’t, and I can hardly blame ’em. The important thing, to me at least, is that I understand and WifeToBe understands. There are very few […]

As amazed as I was about the incredible ease and smoothness of my trip to Australia, I never would’ve imagined that it could’ve gone as well as it did. My flights out there were smooth and on-time, I never waited more than 45 minutes at any gate, and I never got bored. The latter is […]

Not a single thing about this trip has been anything less than absolutely exceeding any possible expectations I may have had. I can ramble on and on about the plane ride, the people I’ve met, the stuff I’ve done and seen, the time of my life I’m having and loads of other important and/or inane […]

I’ve got a little time to kill while waiting for my flight and my checklist is completed. Assload of clothes? Check. Entertainment for the LongestFlightEver? Check. (No, not p0rn. *sigh*) Caretaker for Asshead and fish? Check. Heart firmly lodged in throat? Check. I’m set. Work has been yet another shovelfull on the Mountain of Stressful […]

A great many things have changed in my life from this time last year, and I think it’s safe to say that the majority of them were spawned from one night in late July, and the following week. Things basically fell apart between me and The Girl about 4 months after we got engaged. My […]

It’s been an extremely eventful last few weeks, hence my lack of updating. Thanks though, for asking what’s up in any manner of ways. Drunken/nasty/flirty/insanely cute comments are always an inspiration. You know who you are. Last Friday Night was looking like yet another in the long string of extremely depressingly, alcohol-soaked weekends in my […]